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Raising Kids Nicely

Every parent wants his or her children to grow up as good people. Even the worst dads and moms would never want their children to end up like them. Every parent understands that it’s not a joke to raise a child to a person that is fantastic. Raising kids is no easy task. It is clear that there will come a time in a person’s lifespan that someone will need to have trouble. There are parents that abandon teachers with the duties. It is sad because most parents forget that what they encounter at home is what counts the most. As parents, we know that we could only do a great deal to protect our kids. The following are parenting hints which might help someone who wants to raise good children.

John Toussaint says that each and every fantastic behavior should be praised. Little praise devalues and depresses them. Praise pumps them full of expectations that are unrealistic. What a parent wants is the dose of compliments. More to the point, a parent must praise the behavior that is right. Too many parents nowadays praise or reward their children for lying. Much of this is done when the kids are asked to tell people that their parents are not at home. This in return is rewarded with a thank you or candies which is a wrong way of nurturing the young ones.

A parent should praise only good behavior if you want your kids to behave. This way you will be giving them a reward at the correct place. The kids will learn that behavior that is poor isn’t tolerated. There’s another thing which a parent needs to remember. When there is a parent currently looking just like an imitation, you are pumping the children’ compliments that is unnecessary. Praising children is like watering a plant. A parent needs the right amount to nurture a plant and too much of water will kill it.

A parent should take advantage of teachable moments. Children learn better when something is seen in action. Thus, when there are teachable moments, grab the opportunity to educate your kids. This is one of the aspects which most parents neglect. When you see a bad behavior occurring before you, take your time to tell your kids why he or she should not behave like that. And when things look before your eyes, ensure that your children catch the chance to teach them when they are watching. What happens in the eyes of the children is more readily absorbed than countless nags by you or teachers.

It is necessary for a parent to always be firm. Letting your children have their way after crying and whining will tell them that they can get away by making other people’s lives miserable. Due to avoiding scenes, some parents are relenting. But an individual will be educating their kids that fussing work. Next time they need something they will use the same tactic.

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